
Dresscode for wedding guests
What do you wear to a civil wedding?
Die Wahl des richtigen Outfits für eine standesamtliche Trauung ist ein wichtiger Aspekt, um dem feierlichen Anlass gerecht zu werden. Zwar ist die standesamtliche Hochzeit oft weniger formell als eine kirchliche Zeremonie, dennoch sollte das gewählte Outfit stilvoll und angemessen sein. In diesem Ratgeber erfährst du von uns, welche Dresscode-Regeln für das Standesamt gelten, welche Looks sich für Frauen und Männer eignen und welche No-Gos du vermeiden solltest.
General rules for the city hall dress code
Differences from church or civil weddings
A civil wedding is often less traditional and formal than a church ceremony. While floor-length gowns and classic suits are often expected in a church, things can be a bit more modern and simple at the city hall.
How formal should the outfit be?
The outfit should be elegant, but not overly formal. A cocktail dress or a chic jumpsuit for women, and a suit or a stylish combination of jacket and slacks for men are good choices.
Consider the wedding style
Whether the wedding is elegant, casual, or modern, the outfit should reflect this. The dress code can often be coordinated with the bride and groom. Many couples provide a hint of their desired dress code in the invitation. If possible, try to stick to it.
Consider the season and weather
The material and colour selection of the outfit should be adapted to the season. Light fabrics in summer, warm materials in winter.
Outfit recommendations for bridesmaids, maid of honor and mother of the bride
2.1 Dress Choice
- Dress lengths: Midi and knee-length are ideal; floor-length dresses are usually too formal.
- Colours: Pastel and muted tones are ideal. White is traditionally reserved for the bride; bright red can look inappropriate.
- Fabrics & Cuts: Elegant, but not overly ostentatious fabrics such as chiffon or silk are suitable.
2.2 Alternatives to Dresses
- Pantsuits & Jumpsuits: A modern and chic option.
- Blouses & Skirts: Choose subtle colors and high-quality fabrics.
- Simple, stylish combinations: A blend of elegance and restraint.
2.3 Shoes & Accessories
- Shoes: Pumps, sandals, or flats – don't wear heels that are too high or uncomfortable if you're not used to them.
- Jewellery: Understated jewellery is classy, choose statement pieces carefully.
- Bags & Accessories: A small clutch or subtle hair accessories are stylish.
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Outfit recommendations for men
3.1 The Right Suit
- Does it have to be a suit? A classic suit is always a safe choice.
- Alternatives: Trousers with a jacket can also be appropriate.
- Colours: Dark tones for more formal weddings, pastels or beige for more casual celebrations.
3.2 Alternatives to the Classic Suit
- Smart Casual: A shirt with chinos is always a winning combination.
- Jacket & Jeans: Can work depending on the dress code.
- Shoes: Leather shoes or loafers are appropriate; sneakers can work if they are casual but stylish.
Dress codes and their significance for the registry office
- Formal: Classic suit and cocktail dress
- Business Casual: Elegant yet relaxed outfits
- Casual Chic: Casual yet stylish
- Boho/Vintage: Playful, unique outfits
No-Gos: What should you avoid?
- Too formal: A ball gown or tuxedo is overkill.
- Too casual: Jeans, a T-shirt, or sneakers.
- Inappropriate colours: White (except for the bride), bright red.
- Extravagant outfits: Overly flashy designs can look inappropriate.
Location & season
- Urban vs. rural registry office: Often more elegant in the city, more relaxed in the countryside.
- Seasonal adaptation:
- Spring & Summer: Light fabrics, pastel shades.
- Fall & Winter: Warmer materials, muted colours, stylish coats.
- Indoor vs. Outdoor: Choose weather-appropriate outfits.
Conclusion
Choosing the right outfit for the registry office depends on several factors: formality, season, wedding style, and personal taste. It's important that the outfit is elegant and appropriate, without appearing overly formal or too casual.
What did you wear to your civil wedding? Share your experiences!
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